forbear (v.) Look up forbear at Dictionary.com
"to abstain," O.E. forberan "bear up against, control one's feelings, endure," from for + beran "to bear" (see bear (v.)). Related: Forbearer; forbearing; forbore.
forbear (n.) Look up forbear at Dictionary.com
late 15c., from fore "before" + be-er "one who exists."