"The position of the 'in-laws' (a happy phrase which is attributed ... to her Majesty, than whom no one can be better acquainted with the article) is often not very apt to promote happiness." ["Blackwood's Magazine," 1894]The earliest recorded use of the phrase is in brother-in-law (13c.); the law is Canon Law, which defines degrees of relationship within which marriage is prohibited.
"[G]if he man to deaše gefylle, beo he žonne utlah" ["Laws of Edward & Guthrum," c.924]The verb is from O.E. utlagian. Meaning "one living a lawless life" is first recorded 1880.